Jeffrey Whitlock
Nathan Ward
STDEV 358 R
12/5/11
Final
Reflection Paper
This
semester has been uncomfortable. Often, this word is used in a negative context
but I am actually using it in a quite positive way. I say that it has been
uncomfortable because I have felt myself continually stretched this semester.
And it has been said that when you feel yourself stretching, you are growing.
After serving a full-time mission for the church, I felt that I had actually
grown tremendously in leadership capacities. However, after two years of less
intense leadership practice, I have witnessed my leadership skills retrogress
quite a bit. At first, it was rather disheartening; however, I believe that
this class has given me effective tools, applicable concepts, and meaningful
inspiration to facilitate the growth I needed to return to the level that I was
at post mission and beyond. However, only one semester is down, and there is
still a lot of leading and growing to do. Therefore, it is quite apropos that I
take a moment to reflect on three of the principles that I have learned this
semester and highlight how I will apply them to my leadership next semester (I
may also be doing this for an assignment, but it will be beneficial
nonetheless). The three areas are: servant leadership, character, and focus on
results.
Servant Leadership
To me servant leadership is at the
heart of the Gospel of Jesus Christ because Christ’s entire life mission was
the penultimate example of servant leadership. Servant leadership is a lot of
things but I think that the concept can best be concisely expresses by the
words of Thomas S. Monson, “Remember that the mantle of leadership is not the
cloak of comfort but rather the mantle of responsibility.” As this quote shows,
servant leaders are motivated by love for others and the accountability that
they feel for the success, happiness, growth, and development of those whom
they work with. I have come to better understand through my experiences this
semester that true servant leaders focus on the individual and see them acutely
as just that, individuals, rather than cogs in an organizational machine.
So how will I
apply this concept to my leadership next semester? I have thought of three
specific things that I will do in order to
1. Develop greater charity by praying for
charity: Charity, the pure love of Christ, is the biggest driver of servant
leadership. Furthermore, Mormon taught that we should “pray unto the father
with all energy of heart” for charity. Therefore, my goal is to pray fervently
for charity daily. I believe that as I do this sincerely, and work hard to show
kindness to others, then charity will become a greater part of my being.
2. Change my focus from inside-out to
outside-in by thinking more about the wellbeing of others rather than the
wellbeing of myself: Stephen R. Covey taught that “You'll
find that as you care less about what others think of you and more about what
others think of themselves and their worlds, including their relationship with
you. You'll no longer build your emotional life on other people’s weaknesses.”
I love this quote but it is much easier said than done. After thinking about
way to become better at this—though it might sounds strange—I will practice
this by pondering about others while falling asleep instead of my usual
self-aggrandizing dreaming prior to falling asleep.
3.
Put higher
focus on building personal relationship through better planned stewardships:
Rather than simply planning for organization needs during my stewardships, I
will think of what the individual needs. I will plan sincere questions that
check-up on the individual and help me better understand how they are doing.
Character
I’ve grown fond of the quote, “character
is the essence of leadership.” I have learned the truth of this statement more
profoundly through my experiences this year. Good leadership requires trust
from those you lead. Nothing builds trust better than sterling character. As I
have lead and been lead, I have come to realize that people are more willing to
learn from and be led by those who have a strong character. Strong character means having integrity, being
properly motivated, possessing honesty, and being transparent. Character can be
built but it also builds our attitudes and behavior. The model below visually
illustrates this:
I believe that having a strong
character is one of my strengths, however, I believe that there are two goals I
need to make in order to improve my character:
1. Always Deliver on Commitments by making
realistic commitments: I have learned through experience—often frustrating
ones at that—that the number one reason why I fail to keep commitments is not
usually because I forget but because I make unreasonable commitments;
commitments that if I took a second to think about, I would know that I could
not keep them. I am confident that if I change this, I will be much better at
keeping commitments.
2. Work on making my thoughts lie in harmony
with my actions by thinking about the Savior when I have negative or improperly-critical
thoughts
Focus on Results
If it can be said that character is
the essence of leadership, then I believe that it is fair to say that results
are the purpose of leadership. Without results, leadership is void, hollow, and
meaningless. Therefore, I believe that a focus on results is essential for
effective leadership. I think it is important to caveat that area of leadership
with a personal reminder that I have learned: That in focusing on results, it
is important to focus on the right results and to constantly reevaluate and
refocus which results you are seeking.
1.
Help drive
results not only in the organization but in the development of those I lead by
helping those I lead establish stretch goals: Helping my PDs set and keep
goals will be a more formalized and routinized process in my stewardships next
semester.
2.
Don’t only
create results that are explicitly required of me but create results outside of
what lies explicitly within my “position description:” Just as the graphic below depicts, I will seek to expand my effort out from what is “required” to that
which is needed.


























